75 Flirty Texts for Him to Make Him Want You (2023)

Our flirty texts for him will definitely get his attention. Surprise him by sending a flirty text, whether you’re dating or to spice things up if your married!

Don’t you love getting a text that makes your heart race a little? So does he.

Chances are he will be thinking about you non stop until you see each other again!

We have lots of choices that you can use as-is or as a jumping off point for you to create your own.

Flirty texts for him

1. Thinking of you just makes me smile…

2. You. Me, Cocktails?

3. I was just reminded of the time that we….(bring up a happy memory that you shared)

4. Do you want to know the first thing that I will do, when I see you? Use your imagination…

5. Miss me yet?

6. You have the best smile…

7. Flirting with you is one of my favorite things to do…

8. I really wish that I was in your arms right now…

9. I have this craving… 😉

10. Ok…just so you know, I smiled when I saw a message from you

11. Next time I see you, I will have a surprise for you

12. I have had such a bad day, feel like cheering me up?

13. I feel lucky that you are mine..

14. I want to play a game with you… 😉

15. Let’s spend the day doing nothing but being in each others arms

16. Put your phone down and come right over here…

17. Hey there sexy…

18. I’m in the mood for love🎜

19. It makes me feel better just knowing that you are there

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20. I have a bottle of wine chilling…

21. Let’s get cozy and warm each other up…

22. I really have fun when I am with you

23. I really miss you when you are not with me

24. What are you wearing? Lol

25. Put me on your “to-do” list 😉

26. I just got out of the shower and wanted you to know that you are on my mind 😉

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Flirty texts for him to come over

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27. How soon do you think your lips will be on mine?

28. I was just thinking about what we would be doing…if you were here

29. Just so you know, you are really hot and I can not stop thinking about you! 🌶

30. I could text you all night, but but I would rather be with you in person

31. I would rather be doing right now what we did that last time we were together… 😉

32. So..how soon can I touch you again? 😉

33. Would it be possible for you to give me a hand with something?

34. Lets blow off some steam…

35. Real life is so much better than having a dream about me…😉

36. You left something at my place…why don’t you stop by 😉

37. I could really use a massage to relax…😉

38. My thoughts seem to be X-rated today for some reason…

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What is something flirty to text a guy?

We have lots to choose from, whether it’s a flirty text or flirty questions (at the link below.) We have lots of helpful articles about flirting along with our flirty texts for him examples..

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What can I text a guy to make him smile?

Choose any of our flirty texts for him along with some of our cute flirty texts will make him smile for sure!

39. You are the first thing that I think of in the morning, that’s even before coffee!

40. You are my happy place…😊

41. You make my heart skip a beat when I think about you…

42. I find myself smiling whenever I am thinking of you

43. I was just thinking about when we first met…

44. I love when we spend time together…

45. You make me feel very special

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How can I seduce him with words?

Often being subtle is the best way to get his imagination going, especially if you are in a newer relationship.

While it’s effective to be blunt, it may end up being only surface, unless you really know him very well. If you do know him really well, then you can take your flirting to a whole different level with role playing or being more explicit.

Pick the phrases and texts for him that fit your relationship.

Text messages that will make him want you

It’s fun to send him texts that I call “cliffhanger” texts. These are texts that make him so curious that he wants to see or talk to you to find out the answer. They are simple but effective ways to pique his interest.

46. I went shopping today for new lingerie, how about a fashion show?

47. Imagine that I am whispering in your ear just how much I want you

48. Do you know what I dreamt about last night?

49. I woke up with a smile…do you want to guess what I was thinking about?

50. I have a secret that I can tell you only in person..

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51. I can think of one way to make my day better…

52. Just thinking about how hot you are…;)

Flirty texts to make him laugh

Lighten up his mood by sending him a flirty text to make him laugh. He will love a cheeky text or message that reminds him about your fun side!

53. I have to stop myself from texting you every thought I have…you might use it as evidence of my insanity…

54. I can’t focus and I blame you!

55. How about if we play hooky tomorrow?

56. I’ll be cooking dinner tonight..what should we have for dessert? 😉

57. I’m planning on seducing you..just FYI

Flirty texts for him at night

Sending a flirty text for him at night will ensure that you are the last thing that he thinks of before going to bed.

58. I can’t stop tossing and turning when you are not here…

59. I just want to cuddle…

60. The bed feels so cold without you…

61. I will be dreaming about you tonight

62. I would love to hold you close…

63. You do realize that I am texting you rather than sleeping, and you KNOW how much I love sleeping!

64. I go to bed thinking of you and by the morning, you are still on my mind

65. Good night handsome, sweet dreams

66. Sending you lots of hugs, sleep well

67. Dream about me 😁

68. Knowing you are there for me, is so comforting

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Flirty text for him at work

You should use the flirty texts for him at work selectively. You don’t want to distract him too much especially if he has meetings or projects he needs to work on!

But it’s still fun to let him know how much you are looking forward to seeing him…after work!

69. I know work is stressful, but I promise to help you with that later…

70. I just have to tell you how hard it is to concentrate today, you keep popping into my head!

71. I have plans for us tonight after work..😉

72. Meet for happy hour?

73. Thinking about you gets me all warm and fuzzy

74. I have a surprise for you tonight…

75. Thank you for reminding me what it feels like to feel butterflies again

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Flirty ways to respond to different dating scenarios

Sometimes you want to set standards while still letting him know you are interested. We have some scenarios that you may find yourself in and ways to playfully respond.

1. If you are asked out, (but already have plans) a way to respond if you are interested would be “That sounds really nice, but unfortunately I have plans…would next week work?

2. If he is coming on too strong, but you are still interested… a simple “too soon.” will let him know he needs to slow down a bit.

3. If he asks you to hang out but would rather have a “date” you can say…”although that is tempting, I would like to get to know you better over dinner (or coffee).”

4. If he asks if you are mad at him for not getting back to him right away or texting more, you can say…”I may be a bit busier than what you are used to, but I do enjoy hearing from you.”

5. If someone asks you out and you are thinking about it…”hmm, that is tempting, let me think about that.”

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Conclusion Flirty texts for him

All of us want to spice up our conversations every once in a while. Everyone likes a little insinuation every now and then. Flirty texts for him will pierce through what he was thinking about and quickly switch it over to you.

So whenever you want to spice things up or break out of the routine, act a little flirty! The vibe between you both will change instantly. So have some fun with our flirty texts for him or her.

It doesn’t matter if you are just dating or have been together for a while, it’s still fun to be flirty with your guy!

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What to text him to make him go crazy? ›

75 Text Messages To Make Him Obsess Over You – Updated List 2022
  1. I wish you'd stop being so hot. ...
  2. I wondered why all those women were looking at me with lusty eyes. ...
  3. I'd go crazy if I get that kind of attention from women everywhere I go. ...
  4. You're going to love me, I mean, the outfit I wear tonight.
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How do you make a guy think about you constantly through text? ›

Bring up those happy times, the vacations or holidays you have spent together. Send him pictures or music that you both have enjoyed together. All of us have small things that remind us of the other. Text him when you see or hear something that you think he would like or enjoy.

What to text to tease a guy? ›

Say you can't stop thinking about him.

"Wondering what you would do if you were here..." "How great you looked in that shirt last night" "Just remembering that time we were in the hot tub..." "That I'd really like to be kissing you right now"


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